| We can teach student to be homeopaths — but
can we teach them to be healer? Probably all of us have been to
health care professionals who seemed technically proficient, but
whose bedside manner was atrocious. Perhaps they seemed aloof, or
distracted by their pager, or overfocused on their computer. Or
even worse — perhaps they berated us for using “voodoo
medicine”, or revealed a prejudice against our race or gender
orientation.
At Teleosis, we feel that part of our mission is not only to teach
the technical skills of homeopathy, but also to entrain in our students
the heart of a healer. This begins right from their application
to come to the school. We ask them to describe a particularly good
or bad experience they had with a health care professional, and
what they learned from it.
Weekend classes begin and end with a meditation, something I learned
from Teleosis founder Dr. Joel Kreisberg. Although I had been teaching
heart-centered meditation for 25 years when I studied with Joel,
it would not have occurred to me to “inflict” a group
meditation on a captive audience of homeopathy students, many of
whom had never meditated before. To my surprise, it worked. Everyone
sat in pindrop silence, and when the meditation ended, the whole
energy in the classroom had shifted. Students who had arrived stressed
out from traffic and pre-occupied with children they had left behind,
suddenly were present and aware and ready to learn. Meditating at
the end of the day has a similarly powerful effect on learning:
instead of feeling overly full with “undigested food particles”
of homeopathic information, students leave feeling calm and complete.
I
explain to the students that I am taking time out from homeopathy
instruction for meditation (something they grumble about at first)
because heart-center meditation is something they can use in their
practice. I tell them that if they can calm the busy thoughts in
their mind, they can be more of a blank slate, less in their own
ego. If they can open their heart to the client, they will be more
receptive and more able to feel what life is like from the client’s
point of view. Both will help them find a good remedy — but
what’s more important, to create a healing relationship.
Visualizations for Healers
Here are some specific images I use in meditations with the students:
• Imagine you are sitting with a client. Your mind is
calm and quiet, and you are resting in your heart. Your heart
center is fully open, like a golden lotus, as is theirs. Feel
that you are breathing in and out with them, and that there is
a rainbow bridge of energy between your heart and theirs.
• Imagine a flow of golden light back and forth between
your heart chakra and theirs. Feel that as you breathe in, you
are breathing in the essence of the client, receiving the client
in your heart of compassion so that you can fully understand them.
As you breathe out, you are sending healing energy, love, compassion,
and goodwill from your heart to theirs.
• (This is one I used when students were upset about the
possibility of seeing a clinic client in everyday life after hearing
him reveal dark secrets in the clinic interview). Imagine that
your mind has an invisible shield around it. You are totally in
your heart — no mind, no memory of the client’s case
— and you are sending golden streams of light and love to
the client’s heart.
• Envision your future practice: what kind of practice setting
will you be in? What will your office look like? What kind of
clients will you attract?
Dealing with Difficult People
We also give homework assignments designed to help students become
aware of, and overcome, their own issues. For example, we have them
write about a difficult patient in their current practice, or a
difficult person in their private life: “why they were difficult,
how they pushed your buttons; how you handled them; and how you
could handle them better after the assigned reading.” The
suggested books are:
• Difficult Conversations by members of the Harvard
Negotiations Project, about constructive ways to phrase and re-frame
difficult topics.
• Thank You for Being Such a Pain by Mark Rosen
(about what we can learn from the difficult people in our lives)
• Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping (finding
ways to be grateful for the person for what we are learning from
them, until our reaction to them relaxes)
Here are several other personal growth assignments:
• Practice “receptive attention” in a personal
or professional interaction. Write about how it affected you and
what effect you think it had on the other person.
• Read No Enemies Within by Dr. Dawna Markova (mentor
and inspiration to Peris and Begabati. One theme of the book is
that we need to accept all parts of ourselves, and that sometimes
a “shadow side” may reflect an unmet need.) Think
about “what’s right about what’s wrong”
in a health issue. Describe the symptoms and the unmet need underneath
them.
• Practice the kata exercises in The Life We Are Given
by George Leonard and Michael Murphy (drawn from yoga and Tai
Chi, plus visualizations and affirmations; the most effective
life-transformation exercises developed by the founders of the
Human Potential Movement). Write about “how homeopathy is
changing me” and/or your intentions for your homeopathy
practice.
Favorite Readings
Here are some favorite books suggested by staff and students which
can help budding homeopaths become compassionate healers as well.
Kitchen Table Wisdom and My Grandfather’s Blessings
by Rachel Naomi Remen were the hands-down favorites. The first:
stories drawn from her medical practice, often involving ways that
she learned from her patients. The second: how she blended the mystical
wisdom of her grandfather the rabbi with the objective medical science
inspired by her parents.
Grace and Grit by Ken Wilber. The heart-wrenching story
of this contemporary philosopher’s loss of his newlywed wife
to cancer; it also serves as an accessible introduction to his philosophy
and to the landscape of alternative treatments for cancer.
A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose (which
mentions homeopathy!) and The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
The spiritual philosopher featured on Oprah, Eckart Tolle teaches
us how to overcome our minds’ tendency to dwell in the past
or future, instead staying in the present moment where we have the
power to create change.
Anatomy of the Spirit by Carolyn Myss about how our “biography
is our biology”, in other words how our emotional traumas
manifest as physical symptoms, from a medical intuitive. If only
she knew homeopathy!
Loving What Is by Byron Katie. How to “turn it
around” when you pass judgment on someone else, finding ways
that the same judgment could be made in your own life, then transformng
the judgment into compassion and growth.
House Calls: How We Can All Heal the World One Visit at a
Time by Patch Adams (the famous doctor who ran the free Gesundheit
Clinic): this funny book full of insights and cartoons is about
how to bring true healing to someone who is sick.
The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down by
Ann Fadiman: the collision of cultures as American doctors try to
“save” a Hmong (ethnic Cambodian) child with epilepsy
while her culture has an entirely different perspective on her illness.
The Scalpel and the Silver Bear by Lori Arviso
Alvord, MD and Elizabeth Cohen Van Pelt. The first Navajo woman
surgeon combines Western medicine and traditional healing and shows
how important it is to draw on our spirituality as well as our book
knowledge.
The Wind Is My Mother by Bear Heart with Molly Larkin:
the life and training of a Muskogee shaman, inspiring readers to
think about how you want to live, what you want to do with your
life, and how to be a compassionate healer.
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Special thanks to Amy Leonard, Kim Kalina, Linda Rhines, Tanya
Renner, and Vicki Kindelein for their suggestions.
Begabati Lennihan is director of Teleosis School
of Homeopathy in Cambridge, MA. A Harvard alumna, she practices
homeopathy at the Lydian Center for Innovative Medicine and teaches
meditation at Harvard Health Services’ center for mind-body
medicine. She is an Adjunct Instructor in homeopathy at Massachusetts
College of Pharmacy and has edited several textbooks of homeopathy.
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