| In homeopathy, certain substances are thought to
reverse, or "antidote" the action of homeopathic remedies,
causing the person's original symptoms to return. For this reason,
homeopaths often suggest that their patients refrain from using
even small amounts of coffee, camphor, tea tree oil, and other strong
smelling substances.
Let's look at the word antidote. Webster's Dictionary defines it
as: a medicine or other remedy that counteracts the effects
of a poison.
This doesn't really describe the process as we apply it in homeopathy--as
I have understood it. Our medicines are not poisons. This vexed
question of antidotes is one the homeopathic community wrestles
with over and over again. So at the risk of opening a rusty old
can of worms (?!) let's take off the lid and have another look.
In my early years in practice I embraced enthusiastically everything
homeopathic, including the concept of antidotes. I wrote a patient
information leaflet that forbade everything from mint toothpaste
to coffee ice cream and cough lozenges. I believed patients were
glad to have something they could do towards their own healing.
Because this is what I had been taught. I believed that my medicines
were rather vulnerable, delicate, easily affected by external influences--by
heat and x-rays and strong smells. I wouldn't even let my patients
touch their own remedies ... the tablets they were taking. I never
went to the extremes of some homeopaths who forbade their patients
to cook with garlic. My Italian blood simply freaked out at the
very thought!
So ... about ten years ago I spotted a worrying development in
my practice, in terms of the relationship between me and my patients.
This is what would happen. Sometimes (as much as once a busy day)
a patient would return for a follow-up consultation ... typically
after 4-6 weeks, and tell me they had had a nice response to their
treatment--at first. There had been an improvement of some sort
that lasted only a week or two and was followed by a relapse.
What concerned me was this. I noticed a certain tone creeping into
my voice when I asked The Big Questions. "Did you antidote
your remedy? Did you drink any coffee?" Responses varied from
the indignant "Of course not!" to coy giggles and "Well
I did forget this one time," to guilty glances and "We
went to Paris for the weekend and I just couldn't resist it,"
or a pathetic whine "I missed it so much, I only had one cup,
surely it isn't that bad."
I would, of course, repeat the remedy and I'd impress upon my hapless
patient the importance of obeying the rules. I don't think I actually
got out my finger and wagged it pointedly at them, or rather I hope
I didn't! But the words bad boy or bad girl definitely lingered
unspoken in the air at these times.
At the other end of the spectrum there was the anxious mother who
would call in a panic to ask what to do about her child who had
eaten a piece of chewing gum. Or the conscientious new patient who
wanted to know if he could eat the salad his wife had made because
it had some mint from the garden chopped into it.
And then I remember reading about the old French homeopaths who
would send their women patients home with a dose of Nux vomica for
a drunken husband and instructions to put it in their unsuspecting
spouse's soup...and it worked. I remember reading this and hearing
my mind skid to an abrupt stop. I wasn't concerned about the ethical
issues. I was amazed at how a remedy administered in hot soup could
work. My patients were timing their 30 minutes before and after
each dose with something approaching religious fervor, in order
to take their remedies according to the rules about having a "clean
mouth."
I started experimenting. I crushed remedies and sprinkled them
in my dog's food. They worked. I told mothers not to worry about
whether their children ate before or after a remedy. The remedies
worked. A friend put her child's remedy in his macaroni and cheese.
It worked. Another patient was desperate to give her elderly parent
a remedy. Her mother didn't want a remedy. Her mother was suffering.
I struggled with the ethics of this and finally relented. I suggested
she put the remedy in her mother's morning tea. It worked.
And then I reflected on my practice and the relationships I was
building with my patients and added into my reflections my hopes
and goals for these relationships. I realized that the many rules
I had built up around my treatments were acting as constrictions
and sometimes as traps. I also realized that the very notion of
enforcing them made it difficult for me not to persecute my patients
when they "messed up," and this put them into an unpleasant
victim-like position. Not the sort of healing relationship I had
in mind.
I found out that some of my patients were lying to me, because
friends of theirs squealed on them. This made me feel terrible.
I had created a situation where these patients were hiding things
from me. We were both acting out a most unfavorable aspect of the
age-old dance of parent and child. And it was my fault. What a mess.
And I found out that I was not alone. I have come across many patients
who have lied to homeopaths with similarly stringent rules. When
we behave like a critical parent by giving our patients rules to
adhere to, we automatically bring out the scared or rebellious child
part in our patients--whatever their age.
I did a complete about face. And I called it an experiment. For
a whole year I did not take anybody off anything. The effects were
interesting. The most immediate and palpable result was that a whole
layer of tension that had settled into my practice completely melted
away, disappeared. I relaxed and so did my patients. We never looked
back. Actually I never went back to believing in antidotes in the
same way, although I do ask my patients to avoid strong aromatic
oils especially camphor, eucalyptus and peppermint (but stress that
ordinary toothpastes and mint in cooking is fine).
So what happened, I hear you asking! Well, a number of patients
did not improve. The number was no different from my previous year
in practice. As you know, we cannot help all the people all the
time, and these patients I referred to other practitioners.
Some patients improved and then relapsed. The numbers were not
very different from the previous year. I realized that these were
patients who had been given the wrong remedy--a similar remedy rather
than the simillimum in many cases--and I worked that little bit
harder to find a treatment to help them, rather than blaming coffee.
In addition, with each of these patients I checked the relationship
of coffee to their remedy (at the back of Kent's Repertory or with
Dr. P. Sankaran's Clinical Relationships), and if it was a listed
antidote, I negotiated with my patient to cease and desist from
drinking coffee for a period of time--again, mutually agreed upon.
This worked well. If their symptoms returned when they drank coffee
again, then we went back to the negotiating table and worked out
a longer term plan. Now that I live in the latte capital of the
world this way of working is much appreciated by patients whose
morning coffee is sacrosanct!
My bottom line--for what it is worth--is this. Anything that affects
a person strongly can affect any healing response including one
that is due to a homeopathic medicine. Any medicine (whether it
is coffee or corticosteroids or cannabis) which has a strong effect
on the psyche or substance of a person can counteract a healing
response, whether this positive response is due to a homeopathic
medicine, an acupuncture treatment or falling in love. Patients
whose nervous systems are affected by coffee, or whose headaches
are brought on by alcohol need to avoid these substances, at any
time but especially while they are pursuing any treatment which
seeks to enable healing to take place.
I do ask whether coffee-drinking patients experience palpitations
and/or the "shakes" after relatively small amounts of
coffee, or find it difficult to get to sleep at night if they drink
it after mid-day. Coffee is strong medicine for these people and
should be avoided. These patients are well aware of this and are
usually only too happy to be encouraged to do so.
I have heard of patients whose remedies have been "antidoted"
by a single coffee-flavored candy. I find this very hard to believe.
I wonder whether it is because the homeopath and the patient believe
it so strongly that neither take the time nor the trouble to investigate
other possible stresses. Our beliefs are powerful motivating forces
in all our lives. To a certain extent they shape how we think, feel
and behave. And to another, probably larger extent, they shape our
expectations.
We believe a homeopathic medicine works by stimulating the vital
force and that it acts as a catalyst for healing. Therefore, a homeopathic
medicine does not, of itself, do the healing, does not heal per
se.
Therefore (and this is a logical leap), a homeopathic medicine
cannot of itself be antidoted. So, after fifteen years in practice,
and hundreds of discussions around this topic, I have come to the
conclusion that we need to investigate and question this concept
of antidotes more carefully. It is true that the healing response--in
other words the reaction to a homeopathic medicine--can be affected
by any significant stress, be it physical, emotional or mental.
Are these then antidotes? To what?
Our medicines stimulate a healing response. I believe this response
can be a delicate process, and that the healing effect itself can
be counteracted. By strong physical stresses: which can range from
an accident to an allopathic medication to a recreational drug,
to a homeopathic medicine that has an"opposite" effect
to the one previously prescribed. Emotional stresses that can interfere
with a healing response include absolutely anything that affects
the patient strongly, to which they are particularly sensitive because
of their own weaknesses and struggles.
I don't have a simple answer as to how to write about this aspect
of our work. I have dutifully written a section on antidotes in
each of my books, and I would rather have called these sections
by another name, but I don't actually have one! We don't have one.
Maybe you do--I would love to hear what you have to say about this!
Our healing can be a delicate process. As a homeopath, I believe
my patients deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. Being
a homeopathic patient is demanding enough. I have decided not to
stress the relationship unnecessarily through the administration
of harsh or unnecessary rules.
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Miranda Castro is a British-trained professional
homeopath who has been in practice since 1983. She lives in Gainesville
(Florida) where she practices and teaches. She has published three
books: The Complete Homeopathy Handbook, Homeopathy
for Pregnancy, Birth & Your Baby’s First Years
and Homeopathic Guide to Stress. She also has a background
in acupuncture, iridology and humanistic psychology. Visit her website
: http://www.mirandacastro.com/
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