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The Musical Melody of Silence

Homoeopathic interrogation is not a simple ordeal based on mere clinical orientation. It is multi-dimensional and multifaceted because it encompasses human orientation. Through listening, a homoeopath shows his politeness, gentleness and his compassion. A homoeopathic physician who sits on a chair with holistic philosophy in the mind, who has to deal with the patient from totalistic viewpoint.

The Complex Homoeopathic Interrogation

Homoeopathic interrogation is a complex process; to live with the truth that life is difficult, difficult for many people. Homoeopathic interrogation is not a simple ordeal based on mere clinical orientation. It is multi-dimensional and multifaceted because it encompasses human orientation. As homoeopathy is a life medicine, Homoeopathic interrogation is difficult. It deals with the cross and transverse section of a man who is a complex being – at times difficult to understand. Man is the best of creations as he is gifted with intellectual powers and thinking abilities and owing to these qualities he has conquered everything coming in his way. This has eventually led to the increasing demand of conquering new heights and this unending desire has translated itself into a deadly trap of greed. Man uses every resource and reserve to satisfy his greed, which has made him the most destructive force on this planet. It is not incorrect to say that he has become a first class predator to grab his goals in his lifetime. Humans have become a problem of survival for each other. A dreadful question that very often haunts our mind is that – are we really humans? Have we attained ‘the quality of being human’ in the process of evolution? Or we have devolved? Is it true that we have failed to ‘kill’ the animal within us? Is it this the animal within us which is responsible for all the sufferings, conflicts and illnesses among us? To achieve the Godliness is what we are here for. This is our final journey. Indeed we have to return to the point of our origin! Destination is Godliness. How many people want to become Yatris- the spiritual path seekers? All these considerations are important for a homoeopath, because health is of three types – physical, mental and spiritual. What is to be cured in a patient depends on the physician’s knowledge, which renders a specific approach to the physician.

The silent communication

“The Doctor of the future will not give medicines, but will be someone who is able to listen.” – Thomas A. Edison

I often wonder what made Thomas write this statement. In spite of the tremendous benefits of listening, today’s doctor doesn’t have time to listen to the grievances of the patient. Today a doctor’s time is usually carried away by the materialistic concepts of modern medicine, which degrade humans into machines and believes in the dictum, ‘fit everything into the machine and enjoy whatever comes out of it’. For a classical homoeopath, there is nothing like the doctor of the future. He has to do the essential job of listening, as he has to stand up on the terra firma of adequate and accurate data which cannot be acquired unless we seal off our tongues and sensitize our tympanic membranes to understand uninterruptedly what the patient has to say.

I give pivotal importance to listening. The first hospitality is nothing more than listening. Through listening, a homoeopath shows his politeness, gentleness and his compassion. The process of ‘getting acquainted’ with the patient becomes a smooth one if a homoeopath symbolizes himself as a listener. A homoeopathic physician who sits on a chair with holistic philosophy in the mind, who has to deal with the patient from totalistic viewpoint, who has to focus keenly on the emotions, on each and every body movement, gestures, postures, speech modulations etc., has to be a good listener. We should never forget that the words of wisdom say – the first step to acquire knowledge is to keep silence. The next step is to listen properly, understand properly and lastly to promulgate the knowledge to others. One who follows these steps truly gives justice to the knowledge. The process of case taking is a knowledge-seeking process. Ultimately it is the patient who gives knowledge to a homoeopathic physician.

Listening doesn’t happen automatically. It is there, always. But a physician has to enter into it, wisely, with discipline, with pros and cons, with perspective and prospective vision. It is not an easy task as it is the quality which develops after years of grooming.

‘Hearing’ and ‘Listening’ are altogether two different processes. They are no way alike. Hearing alone is not listening. Hearing means merely picking up sound vibrations through the ears while the process of listening has a wider domain. It means making sense out of what we hear. Hearing is related with functioning of ‘ear’ while listening encompasses – ears, brain and mind.

“Active listening is an important way to bring about changes in people. Despite the popular notion that listening is a passive approach, clinical and research evidence clearly shows that sensitive listening is a most effective agent for individual personality change and group development”- Rogers and Farson.

The relation between silence and listening must also to be understood. One can be silent without listening to anybody. But for listening one has to be silent. One may be in silence while listening to the inner voice of self. But listening to someone who is talking is difficult, ambiguous and impossible too. ‘A man is a slave of spoken words but he is a master of unspoken ones’.

Silence-The ultimate musical melody

Silence is relative or total lack of sound. But this definition of silence is very inadequate and superficial. Silence is a state being fully aware. But this awareness is not only physical. It is with understanding. It is with knowledge. It is with sharp intellectual faculties in which we can take an appropriate decision. Silence per se has no purpose or expression. When it is actualized as a sound in speech, it is called by the name silence. Silence is not an archetype; it cannot be designated and it is unknown. When it is expressed in a word, it is no longer silent. ‘Real silence begins when a reasonable being withdraws from the noise in order to find peace and order in his inner sanctuary’- Peter Minard.

Silence can run from very active consciousness to the torpidity and this dimension must be known to a physician. Silence has the capacity to evoke many responses in a patient like threatening, panic, curiosity, anger and even suspicion. A patient can be comfortable or uncomfortable with a physician’s silence but when used wisely in interacting with a patient, it can be a powerful communication tool. Silence is one of the more dramatic tools we can use with patients. It can intensify the expression of excitement, shock, anger, disappointment, and can motivate, persuade and educate just to name a few. All these emotions can be conveyed when sound and voice are omitted with appropriate timing. On the other hand, silence at the wrong time may evoke a negative response in a patient. There is a saying, “Music is made beautiful by pauses between the notes.” But these pauses must be well-timed. A long pause with physician’s closed eyes may give an impression to the patient that a physician is sleeping! Silence must aid for a fruitful conversation, it should facilitate the interview. There is one more saying ‘Silence is more musical than any song’.

Dr. N. L. Tiwari lists three circumstances for the use of silence – a) when the patient himself needs it after he has ventilated and wishes time to recover. b) when the patient has come to an end of his narration and appears to be searching for fresh material and c) when the physician expects the patient to cooperate along the lines indicated and there is resistance from the patient.

Types of silence

Silence fall into three distinct sections:

First is the Psychological, second Interactive, and third is Socio-cultural. All of these are distinctly defined through time, context, and perception.

The Psychological form of silence can be identified through momentary silence in communicative interaction like hesitation, stutters, self-correction, deliberate slowing of speech for the purpose of clarification or mental processing of ideas to elaborate on topics of discussion. This type is short and combines internal or psychological factors into a physical form of external expression. Interactive silence can be found within interpersonal context – that is interpersonal relationships along with the management and maintenance that relationships require. This category of silence is evident through interactive roles, reactive tokens, or turn-taking. Lastly, there is the Socio-cultural framework of silence in which the communication is formed through cultural norms and it follows the culturally defined patterns of social interaction.

One more distinct way to honor the sacrifices of martyrs or to venerate those who have died tragic deaths is commemorative silence. This usually consists of silence for a minute or two by the mass of people in which they remember and give condolences.


Each patient radiates his silent thoughts, feelings, expectations and beliefs to the physician. At the same time a physician also radiates his responses to the patient’s silent communication. So each patient is simultaneously reflecting and responding to the physician’s expressions on his face, eyes and the tone of his voice and various other shades of expression etc., all completely, silently and ‘unconsciously’. This is the actual crux of the communication. It is generally believed that verbal communication is the most direct form of expression and body language is a supplement to this. A ‘spiritual’ way of looking at human beings portrays the picture in a different way which is totally the reverse. It is actually the silent communication that is the most direct because it reveals the ‘deepest truths’ of an individual, while speech is ‘indirect’ which represents we should be like what we think. This is the importance of silence and listening in interrogation. In silence, the radiant energy of both the patient and the physician resonate with each other in a better way. Silence enhances observation and observation is actually an interaction. Observation changes what is observed and the physician can take advantage of this to perceive the patient’s inner being.

Let us take an example. If a man has a problem with anger and regards it as a bad thing and the physician also regards anger as a bad thing, then the resonance will be manifested in a common bridge between a patient and a physician and actually he will be reinforcing the patient’s problem in a subtle way. But if a physician believes internally that the expression of anger is completely natural and healthy, then this feeling reflects to the patient and results in the formation of a ‘composite’ bridge between them which alters the patient’s feeling from within. Feelings are like ‘electrons’ in the shared bond. The peaceful and accepting attitude of the physician to anger will inhibit the original reaction of the patient, as he will accept the understanding of the physician more readily. Eventually the patient will land up in a receptive mode to receive what a physician has to offer.

This process of resonance is actually an application of the Law of Similars. In order to know where the shoe pinches, a physician should wear the shoes of a patient and should try to experience, through the image transference, the actual feeling states the patient has gone through.

A silent mind, free from the onslaught of thoughts and thought patterns, is both a goal and an important step in dealing with a patient. Inner silence should be understood to bring one in contact with the divine or the ultimate reality of this moment. The ultimate truth of ‘self-realization’ is experienced by great people in the silent phase of tranquility.

Let us take an example of crying. During the consultation, when a patient becomes very emotional and starts crying, it is always better to respect the crying, through silence. Don’t blame a patient or ask a delicate question during this period, the answer of which is difficult for the patient to give. Don’t lash him with any big advice. Just concentrate on how the patient cries and this requires a silent mind. There are more than 50 types of crying and each one is different in its emotional energy and overtone. Perceive what changes the crying induces in you. Watch out for the discomfort in a patient when it is better on your part to turn away slightly, rather than facing or staring at the patient directly. Try to focus your attention on a book like a repertory or materia medica to avert any discomfort to the patient. Once the spell of crying is over and a patient is reverting to emotional balance, ask a question relevant to the issue and wait for the reaction. This gives the patient a feeling of space, of being given the time and freedom to think about and form the response without being compelled. The counterpart of this is the physician’s own mental state and reaction. I recall one student’s reactions to a patient’s genuine crying. She also started crying and the whole scenario became too emotional. The professionalism and the emotionality should have a balance.


Silence is powerful in the arsenal of the physician’s communication toolbox. It demands a refined consciousness and when used correctly, it greatly impacts patient learning, motivation, and emotion, ultimately causing referral, retention and practical growth!
Silence is our deepest nature. The ownership belongs to us only.
Silence reveals. Silence unfolds the truth. Silence heals.
Be silent for efficiency. Be silent for rejoicing yourself in the noble path of healing, with the highly salubrious therapy of homoeopathy!


Dr. Ajit Kulkarni


About the author

Ajit Kulkarni

Dr Ajit Kulkarni M.D. (Hom.) is Director, Homeopathic Research Institute, Pune, A veteran homoeopath, an academician and a famed international teacher. A classical Homeopathic physician, he has been practising for 35 years. He has given over 100 international seminars and workshops in different parts of the world. Dr. Kulkarni is co-author: Absolute Homoeopathic Matera Medica, Five Regional Repertories: AIDS, DM, Thyroid, HTN and Trauma . Also, author of Body Language and Homeopathy, Homeopathy through Harmony and Totality (Three volumes),
Law of Similars in Medical Science, Homeopathic Posology, Kali Family and Its Relations, Homeopathic Covidoscope (published by Amazon) and over 100 publications on various aspects of homeopathy, papers and books translated in several languages, He has Award of ‘Excellence in Homoeopathy, Award of ‘Homoeo-Ratna, Life achievement Award, Dr. B. Sahni Memorial Award.,
He is a member, Editorial Board, National Journal of Homeopathy, Mumbai
www.ajitkulkarni.com / E-mail ID: [email protected]

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